This is my response to a poll about corporal punishment on the "Sodahead" website.
Showing posts with label child abuse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label child abuse. Show all posts
Monday, August 16, 2010
Is spanking okay?
It is not okay to beat a child. It is not okay to use an object. But sometimes an open hand on the booty is what is needed. One does not have to hit at all hard to make the point. I can count on one hand the number of times I spanked my son. One time he ran out into a busy parking lot. The other times he had been warned to stop doing something either potentially dangerous or very annoying and continued to do so. Again, hard spanking, beating, or using objects is not necessary, but a firm swat on the backside is sometimes the most effective method of discipline when a child is misbehaving.
Posted by Cie Cheesemeister at 8:25 PM 0 comments
Labels: child abuse, child rearing, corporal punishment, Sodahead
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Demon Spawn's Mother Needs Discipline
Sometimes the shit you read is completely unbelievable. A five year old child brutally attacked his disabled grandmother while her daughter sat by and did nothing. Read on at The Dreamin' Demon, which is a crime reporting site that tells it like it is.
Here is my response, and a rather humiliating true confession.
Elder abuse is a more common problem than most people realize. This child needs one whole hell of a lot of psychological work. It sounds like he's a sociopath already. I once dealt with a child who was extremely angry and acting out after his father died, but he didn't go to these extremes. Unfortunately I was a dumb seventeen year old and my brother was a dumb thirteen year old and we overdisciplined him after he got in the middle of our homework and threw it all over, then tried to hit us. (We were babysitting for him at the time.) I swatted him hard on the butt and my brother grabbed his arm and made him go to his room. Not cool, but even with that douchebag move, we were a far cry from most of the assholes one reads about here who beat kids to near death or even to death. We got a talking to, the kid got a talking to, we understood what we'd done wrong and never did it again. I've always regretted what we did in that situation.
Seriously, in the situation you described, the one most at fault is the daughter. Who as another commenter pointed out, is probably also abusing her mother. She is as well abusing her son, if not corporally, than by neglect.
Posted by Cie Cheesemeister at 12:26 PM 0 comments
Labels: child abuse, childhood crimiinals, elder abuse, neglect, The Dreamin' Demon, true confessions
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Seriously--Just...no!
This was a response to this lovely post at The Dreamin' Demon regarding a despicable excuse for a woman who molested her 15 year old son.
I'm 45 years old and have a 20 year old son. Aside from the fact that anyone who would mentally scar their child for life like this needs to have their sexual organs removed and sewn to their head, I really can't fathom wanting to have sex with the person you once carried inside you. That's just so far beyond the scope of comprehension that I think I would be more able to breathe the atmosphere on Jupiter than to conceive of such an act.
Furthermore, I can't fathom having sex with a 20-year-old guy who I wasn't related to, simply because of the vast gap in maturity. 20 year old guys are on a very different plane than 45 year old women. So although it's not illegal, just...why? But this kid wasn't even 20. He was 15. Now there's a huge ick factor--for anybody who even passes for normal.
I don't get women who molest their underage students. But I really, really, REALLY don't get anyone who could molest their own child. Just...ugh!
Furthermore, I can't fathom having sex with a 20-year-old guy who I wasn't related to, simply because of the vast gap in maturity. 20 year old guys are on a very different plane than 45 year old women. So although it's not illegal, just...why? But this kid wasn't even 20. He was 15. Now there's a huge ick factor--for anybody who even passes for normal.
I don't get women who molest their underage students. But I really, really, REALLY don't get anyone who could molest their own child. Just...ugh!
Posted by Cie Cheesemeister at 2:19 AM 0 comments
Labels: child abuse, incest, perverts
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
Too Fucking Sad
Pam's House Blend:: NY: 17-month-old baby killed by man 'trying to make him act like a boy instead of a girl' http://ping.fm/3AFW5
Sadly, a lot of boys, both heterosexual and homosexual, who don't fit the rigid definition of "man" get bullied by their male role models. Granted it usually doesn't happen this young. While my knee jerk reaction is to hate the bastard that did this and want to go Vlad Dracula on his ass with the old impalement route, I think that he probably was bullied in his youth by male role models. He should not get out of jail for a long time and should never be allowed to be around children. Goddess help us all if he ever gets out and knocks some attention-starved woman up.
This society is really pathetic, and often it is helpless children and animals who end up paying the ultimate price.
This society is really pathetic, and often it is helpless children and animals who end up paying the ultimate price.
Posted by Cie Cheesemeister at 11:53 AM 0 comments
Labels: child abuse, homophobia, sex role stereotypes
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